Eyes on Jesus, Not Everyone Else's Highlight Reel
Do you ever find yourself scrolling through social media, looking at someone else’s perfect life, and suddenly feeling like yours doesn’t measure up? It seems like one minute, you’re fine, and the next, even though no circumstances have changed, you’re convinced you’re failing at everything - your house isn’t like everyone else’s, your job is not that exciting, and even your dinner looks blah compared to what you see everybody else eating.
It’s exhausting, isn’t it? I mean, really exhausting.
But here’s the truth: Comparison is a liar. It whispers deep inside that you’re not enough, that God’s blessings are skipping over you, and that you need to strive harder to keep up. But that’s not what God says about you.
God’s plan for you is yours alone.
Jeremiah 1:5 says, “Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you.” God handcrafted you, your personality, your gifts, even your quirks - on purpose. That means He didn’t create you to live someone else’s story. He numbered each of your days with the utmost intention and care.
When we start comparing, we’re essentially saying to God that what He gave us isn’t good enough. Ouch! But, friend, His plans for you are just as intentional and just as beautiful as the plans He has for anyone else.
Remember Peter in Matthew 14? He was literally walking on water! What?? As long as he kept his eyes on Jesus, he stayed above the water, but as soon as he looked at the wind and waves (the distractions around him), he started sinking.
That’s what it’s like for us with comparison. The moment we take our eyes off Jesus and start looking at someone else’s life, job, talents, relationships, we begin to sink in self-doubt, frustration, and jealousy. It’s true!
So how do we stay above the waves that inevitably are going to come?
Start your day in God’s Word! Fill your mind with His truth. It’s all there - His promises, blessings, instruction, and encouragement. Psalm 119:105 says, “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.”
Pray for a heart of gratitude. Nothing kills comparison like counting your blessings.
Celebrate others without questioning your own worth. Someone else’s success doesn’t mean your life is lacking.
Trust that God is writing a story in your life - one that isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s.
And, finally, run your own race!
Hebrews 12:1-2 says, “Let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith.”
Your race is YOUR race. Not his. Not hers. Not theirs. YOURS. And the only way to run it well is to keep your eyes on Jesus.
So next time comparison tries to creep in, shut it down with this truth:
God’s plan for me is good. His timing is perfect. And my life is right where it’s supposed to be.
Now go purpose to live your story with joy, confidence, and your focus locked onto Him!